COVID pulled a reality check when it put us face-to-face with our mortality and we have been piggybacking on uncertainty ever since as shown by a study (Wu X, Li J, Li Y, 2022) . The study connected uncertainty to experiencing COVID and the participants are more likely to choose smaller and sooner gains, leading to short-sighted behaviours. The after effects are now manifesting with more younger people quitting the workforce as per (Nuryanti, Rosyadi,Muhammad, 2024), people indulging in hobbies and learning to touch grass. Suddenly, somewhere between climbing the corporate ladder and surfing the marriage wave, we realised we might not have as much time on this planet as we assumed. Control became imperative.
We wanted to exercise our free will to switch careers, change appearances, mindsets and transform our life. And the idea of control seems safe in an unstable world with political disruptions, disease outbreaks, unemployement and increasing inflation. We might not be able to control the number of rejections we get from our dream companies due to budget cuts but, we can control whether our bodies would be snatched by the summer. It gives us something tangible to manipulate, where we can see results in real time. Hence, our need to control is making us into a potentially profitable project. The only risk? Losing ourselves in the process.
Think about it, when you're invested in the project, you carefully look at each and every source of costs and revenue, going through the numbers with a finetooth comb to optimise performance and make sure you get the best possible outcome. Similarly, since our bodies and lives have become ongoing construction sites, we have quantified everything, masking a self-surveillance. Health tech is an accomplice with tracked workouts, hormone tracking, even sleep has score assigned to it. How much propaganda did it take to optimise even rest. "Making lifestyle adjustments to improve your sleep quality is great, but it's important to not get carried away," explains Dr. Nadia Homedi, a family medicine physician (Health News, 2025). Advertising and social media narratives has fueled fear in this mix, showing the cost of not applying SPF, missing workout, side effects of cortisol spikes. The vocabulary of wellness is tainted with fear that creates a vicious cycle as it fuels our desire to control even more. It feels ironical as the idea of wellness that's supposed to bring us some calm and peace is the one thing putting us in a flight or fight response.